Some Black People Want To Be White — Do You Want To Be Free?

Do you actually want to be free? In this episode of In The Black Podcast, Big O and Big El react to a clip from Higher Learning and get honest about why some Black people chase proximity to whiteness instead of freedom — and what assimilation really costs. It’s a conversation about identity, belonging, and the mindset that keeps us reaching for acceptance instead of liberation.

What We Covered

Big O and Big El start with the uncomfortable question the clip raises: what does it mean when the goal becomes fitting in rather than being free? From there they get into assimilation, respectability, and the difference between having access and actually being liberated — why proximity to whiteness can feel like progress while leaving the deeper work undone. It’s less about judgment and more about naming the mindset so we can move past it.

Keep It in the Black

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